A blighted Ovum

I always make it appoint that we will have a beautiful weekend...and that day I planned for a UP Diliman visit.

This was despite of lack of sleep I got from a previous office party, which for me was a very memorable affair as well.

We came in a few hours before lunch. But that day we were all given a perfect weather.

So, we explored UP.
I never run but I discovered a new and exciting ways of burning calories...I exercised using my daughter's ball. And it gave me a very satisfying work out by simply kicking it.

My wife and my daughter on the other hand was busy eating chips along with drinks they want and some interesting food from an ambulent vendors.

And we gave a special time for ourselves and sat on a field and talked.

Everything was normal that day, even after we visited Trinoma of course to eat, and most of all buy some stuff we'll be needing for the house.

We even had our coffee break at the nearest Starbucks located also inside the mall.

When suddenly after we went out of the coffee shop, my wife Mary Anne have complained about a blood that stained a lower part of her dress.

But my wife began to worry too much when she felt that it was not just an ordinary period. We figured it out that it was very serious when she went to our bathroom...the coming of the blood was very similar to her when urinating.

We brought her right away to the nearest lying in emergency clinic in Navotas but was adviced by some nurses there to bring her to the nearest hospital to attend more of her needs...we suggested UST.

It was my first time, riding in an ambulance and was hearing a loud "wang-wang, " sound while travelling.

In as fast as 15minutes, we arrived there.

And It was my first time to experienced filling out a hospital form extremely hard.

In such a way that I wrote my name instead of writing my wife's name on it. I was also having a hard time remembering my wife's deceased mother and her dad as well...simply because I was rattled at the time.

I was for one not at myself because I've found out that the health card I was hoping to help me was not at all covering for any medical expenses brought about by any maternal related cases.

Secondly, with that bold scenario, I am now bothered about shouldering all the financial expenses.

I couldn't think and can't make a final decision until I was able to spoke with my wife's OB via phone and suggested to bring her instead in a "clinical division," for a more affordable billing.

But with that scenario, it requires money for a downpayment and a few more for some medicines and laboratory expenses as well.

I began calling for people I might ask for help. 

I called up and texted for my wife's uncle, my wife's deceased father's lived-in partner, even my bestfriend.

God at the time was so good, I got a help from my bestfriend Iaree Anico, she even made a quick hospital visit along with a close friend. And have offered me money for help.

My wife's uncle even came-in, plus the fact that my Mom at the time was beside me.

With that overwhelming support I was getting at the time, I became more stronger.

A little while, after some observation attended by some present physician at the hospital, a raspa operation procedure got conducted on my wife.

It was indeed very very successful.

I was at the time patiently waiting outside the hospital's delivery room.

Thanks to God!

The following day, we were out of the hospital for her continuous recovery and healing.

A very sad story

One of the most exciting part of a married life is having a baby.
In our case, it was not our first time.
For those people who are not aware of us...we now have a 5-year old daughter named Althea.
To make the long story short, after those mentioned years when my wife recently showed signs similar to that of a pregnant women, right away she has undergone a pregnancy test.
And to my surprise...it was positive!
It was the 10th of December when we found out that were both having a baby again.
And since she was pregnant, her cravings for a food to eat became very specific.
If my memory still serves me well, my wife requested for a puto-sulot, a barbecue from Goldilocks, Siopao from Kowloon,
and Chopsuey to name a few.
But a week before that when we had our Christmas furlough at Tagaytay, I remember she wanted to eat "Bulalo."
She sleeps a lot, she has a very good appetite and most of all she became so sensitive.
I was so happy that I grabbed a photo of her "PT," and uploaded it via IG, Tumbler, and even on Facebook.
Of course, who wouldn't be so happy and so proud of it...becoming a dad again is such a very wonderful feeling!
And the responses of friends from my FB account was very overwhelming for it reaches a hundred plus likes and a very warm congratulations.
But recently, when we had our OB checked-up after a transvaginal procedure...the result showed a three sac, the two smaller sac were 5 weeks less and the remaining one bigger than the two were aged more than 5 weeks.
In short, were expecting not just one, two, but three babies.
I was so surprised when was told about it. Actually mixed emotions as to how my wife and I would raise the triplets.
But since my wife was irregular the conflict of her pregnancy arises.
For one, the sac where the babies supposed to develop were still undeveloped.
And what confronts us both was she's considered "blighted."
With this, if the baby or babies didn't push-thru she has to undergo a "Raspa, " procedure.
But we were still hopeful that my wife would never go through this process...because that only means operation and an expenses in a very higher cost.
But her OB told us that the body had its own very natural way to let go undeveloped sac.
The night after our visit...she had spotting. At first, it was only similar to a regular menstruation but as days goes by...her spotting have changed into a blood cloth.
We have lost the baby or babies...but following some descriptions her OB told us, we are both relieved now that my wife doesn't have to go through a "raspa," procedure.

The Diary of a Father

My daughter frequently asked Me everytime she saw me in the morning ready for work..."Papa aalis ka na naman? Iiwan mo na naman kami?"
Sometimes I am running out of a better words to explain why. But I always end up saying her that it was for her future.
At times, I know she understand, but I know sometimes because she's just a little girl...understanding every reason I gave whether valid or not may be very complicated for her.
I miss being a Dad for her and also being a husband to my wife.
Imagine I am only giving them literally two days for family day.
But everytime I was given a chance, I know they can both feel that my very desire to be with them and to make the most out of it...is mainly my priority.
I know I am not the only one who feel this, I think I am more lucky because still I have the chance to see them daily.
Time could be so selfish sometimes, because I think that when I am with them...time runs so fast.
But I know soon my daughter will understand that in life you'll have to do some sacrifices.
But I'd like to thank our Creator for giving me such a wonderful family...with my wife Mary Anne, and our only daughter...Althea.
I am now beginning to think that...I may not possess everything the richness, the power, but because I have them, I'm the luckiest and rich being in the world!

Words of Wisdom

"When you are happy and contented with your life there's someone out there who would want to steal that happiness in you.
But they will all end up struggling and unsuccessful because no matter how they try they won't win.
Because the real logic here is that they couldn't steal that happiness in you because it glows from within."

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Honesty is the best policy!

Today, we would normally hear a friend or someone we know after telling something a reaction like that of a doubt if he or she could keep it. Because we usually think that promises are words said that are meant to be broken.

Why do you think such situation do exist today?

Mainly because the word "Honesty, " has a very deep responsibility attach to it...and that is to keep them.

Sometimes we even come up with different alibis why such action was never practiced.

Many of us do not know that we are committing a violation of being true to other people and even within one's selves.

This was one issue that ABS-CBN bravely face by prompting a teleserye entitled..."HONESTO!"

I have seen the teaser of it, and it was indeed very interesting.

The story will begin with a little boy named "honesto," whom according to them never tell a lie, because in their family if one does their nose simply got irritated and becomes red.

It was funny at first, because mainly most people whom are aware of the tale of "Pinnochio," would think that it was pegged to that.

Here the boy "Honesto," if found something simply returns it...and would never even hear him saying any single lie.

There was just one episode that was teased on the television where-in the scenario was set in the classroom and when Honesto, made mention that he doesn't have a father...all his classmates laughed at him.

The episode tackles the most important and basic foundation of our society and that is having a family that you can call your own.

I began thinking when I have seen the full episode...here all Honesto's classmates were laughing because for him his grandfather and their dog should also be a part of their family.

But the teaser has told us differently.

I'm just concern about how you put your teaser together, as much as possible stick on the gist of the story to avoid confusion and thus misleads viewers.

Because if it's misleading, then it should not anymore be called..."Honesto."

Picture courtesy of: channelfilipino.org

I need a second opinion

When we are quiet sure about a particular medical test, it is common for most people whom are diagnosed with a certain illness or disorders to seek for a second opinion.
Today, I experienced this particular scenario where-in I personally think that I badly need a second test from a medical expert.
I must have been in denial about not having a 20/20 vision, for I couldn't believe that at my age...I am experiencing a "refractive errors."
A refractive errors is a common vision problems that includes nearsightedness, farsightedness, astigmatism, and presbyopia.
But I will be closely tackling about a refractive errors that falls under "nearsightedness."
Nearsightedness mainly states that the person has a clear vision of an object closer to him/her, while when it was far, the vision became blurry or unclear.
This was the exact scenario I've encountered when the company I am currently rendering my service did a periodical medical assessment.
Most of my co-workers, usually tease me when they've notice that I am having a hard time checking if all words in the graphics are all spelled correctly.
I was just laughing at them and always divert my attention by cracking a joke about it.
Not until an eye-specialist hired by the company for a check-up, personally checked it.
I started to get a straight answer when I was asked to read a "Snellen Chart."

The traditional Snellen chart is printed with eleven lines of block letters. The first line consists of one very large letter, which may be one of several letters, for example E, H, or N. Subsequent rows have increasing numbers of letters that decrease in size. A person taking the test covers one eye, and reads aloud the letters of each row, beginning at the top. The smallest row that can be read accurately indicates the visual acuity in that eye.
I was shocked to find out that when I was asked to read the block letter located on the eight rows...I barely couldn't see it.
The guy who's conducting the eye examination uses another grade of an eyeglasses...and from there I was able to read and see it clearly.
As far as I can remember I was told that I have a 75/50 vision. I'm not sure if I am writing it right. But the 75 explains the condition of my right eye, and another 50 was for the left.
I was completely shocked and I have to admit that I worry about this.
But I know that worrying will not help me.
So, what I am thinking now is to seek a second opinion.
And from there, I will surely have a clear understanding of what I am going through right now.


  

A new perspective

Lately I was bothered about the way how my hair appears to everyone. It was growing fast and doesn't have volume anymore. Of course, with that scenario I would normally think that…I have an obligation to visit a Salon again. If my memory still serves me well it was almost a month since I went to my hairstylist. Though I was having a haircut, I never had the guts to change it.

Most of the people would normally happy seeing me being comfortable with a haircut similar to Daniel Padilla. But before it was called a “Justine Bieber” cut, and many years ago it was a “Dao Ming See”, Jerry Yan look.

For many years, the hairstyle was like that, not until I did a very brave move…changing it.

But changing it means literally going to another Salon, far from the one I often visit, also with a major shift on the hairstylist.

One weekend while strolling at the mall, out of curiosity I tried checking on one Salon. For me it was a challenge, for I have to number one conquer my fear on changing a cut I am usually wearing. Recently, I was visiting the net for a new hairstyle and was asking opinions of my wife and some friends via the Instagram. In short, somehow I never came prepared about the huge change I want with my hair to happen.

At the Salon, I showed the hairstyle I want. But the hairstylist showed me several men’s cut from a magazine. From there, I started choosing…and the next thing I saw was…he’s trimming the hair I happen to have for the longest time. I was then having a doubt at the time, for one I was talking to myself…is this the right thing to do? What if it doesn't turn out well? But I stopped asking after it was style using a hair wax. It was beautiful!

I have been getting feedbacks from the outcome of my hair…there are few of them who dislikes it but many of them loved it. And that’s enough for me to realize that I have done a great job on changing the hairstyle.

Though I have to admit that up to now I’m having difficulty of fixing them every morning before going to the office. It was hard for I have to blow dry my hair first… It was an effective way to make the wax more manageable into a hairstyle I want them to be. Most the times, it was a ritual for my wife to help me style it. But one of the most exciting advantage aside from having a new cut that suits me… is also making a time to think of a better way to express it with what I wear.

Ticket Rejected

If you happen to go to work everyday and just like the rest of the normal people you can’t afford to have your own car and then face the daily commuter’s consequences… deal with a horrible traffic while passing thru Edsa.

Before I don’t worry about it that much…for I was a part of a morning newscast show that requires me to commute very early. In as fast as 15minutes from Monumento, Caloocan…I can be at Shaw Boulevard, Mandaluyong City where my office is currently situated. But my present schedule is now set where most commuters rush to their work.

At first, I tried leaving the house two hours before my actual time at the office…but I found myself still caught in the traffic. Now, I was force to ride via the Metro Rail Transit or MRT, for the purpose of saving more time and a test for me to overcome my fear or phobia in a crowded transportation like that of a train.

I must say that most people riding the MRT were far from their old habits like that of not falling in line. But one thing is not fix yet and that is…learning how to allow passengers go out first before going inside the train. But the bottom line is… there are obviously more passengers where in they lack trains to accommodate the volume of commuters.

Most of the times you’ve been hearing the pilot of the train telling the commuters don’t hold the door to avoid delay…next train will be on its way shortly.  But the eager passengers were still forcing the door despite of the lack of space inside. Sometimes, announcement such as “The upcoming train will just pass by and will not load commuters”, that pissed me off and I believe the exact sentiments of the many.

Recently, it was announced that there will be an increase in the fare of the train…I just hope that this will be the best answer to resolve the daily jam-pack volume of commuters and soon enough we will be seeing more trains.

And I do hope that they can also fix the trouble I recently encountered at the time I previously inserted the MRT Magnetic card on their machine…”Ticket Rejected” (in a red warning). It was pretty normal for every individual to ask why such thing occurred. The only response I got from one of the MRT staff was it was expired…and it was purchased last December 2012.

Upon hearing that I was shocked…WHAT?! I happened to purchase a stored value worth P100 exactly a week ago. How come?  I wanted to explain myself…but guys believe me they trust their machine more than the explanation I was making.

I just nodded but dismayed. And the saddest part…I was left with a choice purchasing a single journey ticket again. I will describe the feeling with the following words…GRRR!

To explain my side which was never heard…aside from I just got it a week ago, the same ticket showed a “ticket rejected”, at the very time I first inserted it in their machine. But since, I think such “error” occurred sometimes…I let the train staff to fix it. Never in my expectation…that the same problem will happen again and what worse was I was the one paying for the consequence of it.

The unexpected one

On a daily basis especially on a normal day, most of my time was devoted at my work. It is a five day office attendance and usually sometimes six or more if we have breaking news or special coverages that will fall during weekend. It was pretty normal for a guy who committed himself at a TV Network, especially that of News. If I don’t work on my day-off…I usually invite my family strolling at the mall, or if we wanted to break the monotony…we explore famous parks here in the Philippines, and to name a very popular one…Luneta Park.

When everything seems to be programmed, I usually think of other means to enjoy my spare time. One friend from College days just proposed a get together swimming. At first, everything was not definite for one…the location, who’s coming, and even on the last two days if we are pushing thru or not.

But despite of some dilemma, fate has intervened…the “whole barkada” found our happiness at the Jeds Resort, situated at the Calumpit, Bulacan!

There was a feast of foods from a simple adobong manok , fried hotdog and chicken, lumpiang shanghai, liempo, menudo, and bangus (milk fish).

There was a drizzle of rains that welcomed us before entering the swimming venue. And it didn't stop the whole day. Though the weather didn't match our happy thoughts…it didn't stop us from attaining ecstasy.

My daughter Althea was so excited even before everything happened. I and my wife Mary Anne was very happy to see here dipping in the water, and even mesmerized when she showed us how to swim. Very different from a fearful Althea that we used to know. This time, she was out of the water for longer hours.

It was a whole day activity. But indeed...it was FUN!

The power to explore at the palm of your hand

I remember I had my first cellular phone year 2001. And at the time, I was lucky to have a Nokia 3210 mobile phone. Back then, the very purpose of introducing it to the market was to experience an instant call and sending of text messages anywhere you are. And such brilliant idea made every “Juan” and people from different parts of the world finally changed the way how communication works.

I remember when I was taking my Master's degree in Broadcast Communication in U.P. Diliman,
I proposed a thesis study for the class on understanding how these technology works for a paradigm shift. And back then, our country according to one legislator was believe it or not...a “texting capital of the world”.

And that was how most Filipinos patronized and enjoyed it. Today, there are so many names of service providers and mobile phone makers making their way to continue develop and add more features in the use of such technology. With the advent of popular brands of cellular phones today like that of…Iphone,  HTC,  Nokia, Samsung and a lot more… this gave more people from different walks of life, more reasons to get indulge with it.

Now, most people no longer rely on their personal computer that was taking so much space to set-up. Today, I believe most offices, homes, and businesses has more valid reason to use them. On the other hand, most individuals like young professionals (yuppies), merely depends on their personal mobile phone that has exciting features like that of having an unlimited internet access right at the palm of their hands.

Lately, I was lucky to have a post paid mobile phone provided by Smart that comes with the Unlimited LTE internet access. This was absolutely new to me, for I have been using another brand of phone that limits me from a simple functions...the call and text.The unlimited access I got from my service provider is giving me the power to be on-line anytime, anywhere.

I am very particular on looking at the importance of it in checking my e-mails, updating my twitter and Facebook (FB) posts, on writing a blog, and indeed very functional and helpful in my current work in the media.

The access also gave me some form of entertainment in my long hours of daily travel going in and out of the office.  That is why I don’t bother that much when my monthly post paid bill comes in.

But honestly speaking, a good internet access will be best enjoyed with a mobile phone that comes with the best features. 

To the best MOM of the world!

I want all of you to meet the woman behind our strength and the symbol of hope for Me...my Mom Teresite Alvarez Garabot.
Today, next to my wife I believe my mom is the strongest woman I know alive. For one, Aling Tessie was able to raise all five of us. Sending all of us to College was really a very tough job, but she managed to do this with all her might and courage.
Aling Tessie, never fails to give us a delicious meal despite of a budget deficiency. I think if she happens to have a profession...she would be the best Chef ever. I can't stand a day without her Menudo, Dinuguan, Tinola, Giniling na baboy, to name a few.
Though, I remember when I was a kid she was a disciplinarian, I might not know the value of it before...but now I think I am what I am today without all her shared valuable lessons in life for me.
I wish to the Lord Almighty to give her more strength and divine grace and never give up on any trials life offers her.
For Aling Tessie is one of the many reasons why we are always looking forward for a sunny and a brighter future.
I, my wife Mary Anne Garabot, your apo Kirsten Althea Garabot, my siblings namely;Rachelle Garabot, Richel Diaz de Rivera, Rosalie Ahlie Garabot, Ralph Penny LangGarabot and your husband Oscar Garabot...We All Love You So Much!
Happy 62nd Birthday Mother!

Ang araw na ito ay para sa Atin!

 

The day I became a genuine FATHER!

 

 

Akala ng iba kapag nagkaron ka na ng anak...tatawagin ka ng tatay.
Ang hindi nila alam madaling maging Ama pero mahirap magpaka-Ama.
Kasama nito ang kabit-kabit na responsibilidad upang patuloy mong maitaguyod ang iyong pamilya.
Kailangan matatag ka laging masasandalan at maasahan.
Hindi ka rin papatalo sa anumang mabigat na pagsubok...dahil alam mong maraming humuhugot ng lakas sa'yo.
Minsan dumarating sa puntong maging ang kakayahan mo para itaguyod ang iyong pamilya ay pinagdududahan.
Pero ang mahalaga kahit na masaktan ka sa batikos na ito...nananatili ka pa ring taas noo sa pagganap sa mga obligasyon mo sa pamilya mo.
Dumating man ang panahon makaramdam ka ng pagkapagod...huminga lang ng malalim, kaya mo 'yan.
Ang mahalaga lahat ng bagay mahirap man o madali ginagawa mo ng may pagmamaghal sa iyong pamilya.
Maligayang araw sa ating lahat!

Cheche Lazaro Presents...Si Ser Chief, Si Maya, at ang Teleserye.

Isang makatawag pansin ang naging paksa at sentro ng dokumentaryo.Nagawa nitong pukawin ang atensyon ng mga manonood. Marami kasi sa ating mga pinoy ang sumusubaybay sa naturang teleserye.

Nakakatuwang panoorin ang ginawang pagtalakay dahil iminulat tayo nito sa mga bagay na dapat nating malaman.
Aaminin ko, isa ako sa ilang masugid na tagasubaybay ng naturang dokumentaryo at hindi man madalas na nonood ng teleseryeng..."Be Careful with My Heart" ay alam ko kung pa'no tumatakbo ang istorya.

Sa paggamit ng paksa, may ilan lamang akong mga kapuna-punang bagay na nakita.
Ang ilan sa mga ito ay magiiwan sa'yo  ng katanungan... mapapaisip ka ha? Bakit ganun?

Una, ang dokumentaryo ay dapat na ginawa upang alamin kung bakit nahuhumaling ang tao sa teleserye. Hindi sa kung anong teleserye ang sikat na sikat ngayon.

Pero ang pagpili ng pamagat ay isang mainam na paraan upang makatawag ng pansin ng mga manonood. Kung baga doon sa titulo pa lang alam mo na kung ano ang iyong dapat abangan.

Isang sinasadyang pagkakataon upang paboran ang istasyon ng telebisyon na gumawa at nagpapalabas nito. Upang mas lalo pang pag-usapan ang teleserye ni Ser Chief at ni Maya.
Sa madaling salita...isang promosyon.

Pangalawa, pinapakita lamang nito na ang mga manonood na nabighani sa ganda ng teleserye ay na-kondisyon na ang mga isipan na ang pantasya ay maaaring hindi malayong mangyari sa tunay na buhay?
Gaya ng nakasaad sa kuwento ng teleserye na may posibilidad na ang Amo ay maaaring mahulog ang loob sa isang katulong o taga-alaga ng bata.  
Matindi ito at nakababahala. Ang emosyon na nakapaloob sa teleserye ang siyang ginamit na behikulo upang hindi na magisip ang karamihan.
Sa madaling salita, puso muna ang paganahin bago ang isip.

Pangatlo, ang pagkakagawa ng dokumentaryo ay mag-aangat pang lalo sa mga lumalabas, lumabas na, at lalabas pang mga teleserye ng isang partikular na istasyon.
Sa madaling salita...negosyo.

A visit to a Paradise

At the Kamana, Subic Zambales.
June 2, 2013 Sunday.

I never had the chance to swim or visit a beach due to a lack of time and a budget difficulty.
I just thought I will never experience going out far from Manila.
But fate allow this impossible dream came true.

I was a bit shocked then when I was told days ago that the company where I am currently working will be having a team building.

I was then a little worried for I will be days away from my family.
I used to remember that I was telling it to my wife in melancholy.

I will be exactly not seeing my family for two days.
I can't even imagine myself missing them so much if I will be travelling abroad and will be gone for months
or even years.

But the clock tick so fast, it was May 31st when we departed Manila going to Subic, Zambales.
I never had the chance to do a little research about the venue.
I was with the first batch. We came-in almost 7 in the evening.

After our dinner, most of my officemates can't afford to miss dipping at the pool.
I thought the water was pretty cold, but it's not.
Even though, I lack sleep...I never let the opportunity pass.
I mingled with some officemates and enjoyed swimming.

I never had the chance to see how beautiful Kamana was.
This was because the whole day of Saturday, was spent on the very purpose of the visit...planning.

The following day, first thing in the morning, I was mesmerize with a captivating view the place has offered me.
The last thing I remember was I was swimming with friends at the beach.
And what I will never forget was the happiness felt when we were all posing for pictures.

It was indeed such a lovely place.
I thought before everything in the world today is polluted.
And that I cannot find a perfect place to unwind and relax.
But that perspective was change...when my foot had a close encounter with a sand.

The sea water was so clear. 
You can even see small fishes swimming and flying and jumping all together.
I also witnessed a captivating view of a mountain.
I even seen a jelly fish in the sea...the reason why I immediately left it and reach the dried sand as fast as I can.

I heard It was an expensive stay.
But I think every penny spent of any visitors including us...was worth it.

One Must Sail to Continue Thy Voyage

May 2013  Photo Collage

"I 
am 
certain
that 
things
are 
happening
for 
a 
reason".

Farewell...Solar Daybreak

I remember It was October 1st of 2012 when Solar Daybreak first seen on-air. 
Immediately after that, my usual schedule has been changed.

I came to know Solar News Channel, formerly Solar TV on the 2nd day of July 2012.During that time, I had a weekday work schedule set at 7 in the morning 'til 5 in the afternoon.

A week before the pilot episode of the program the show was offered to me.
Though I know I was never a first choice...I strongly agreed and took the challenge.

My struggle first began rising to bed early. 
Honestly speaking, I was not a morning person.
I usually sleep 11 or 12 midnight. 
At the time it was very hard for me to send myself to sleep.
And even more harder to go up to bed 2-hours pass.
I spent an hour to fix myself, and a few more hour on my way going to the office. 
I even had fear of going to work before. Simply because, I never knew how it was.
But I have to conquer it, because I was chosen to handle a new responsibility.

It was also not easy for me to gain the trust of my former producer in the program.
I remember when we had several mistakes seen on-air, the blame was all course to me.
Imagine, I was questioned in-front of our host, manager, and almost all of the staffs of the show.
But that particular situation gave me strength to lead and always choose to decide what's best for the program.

It was not just a simple day to day graphics coordination. 
If anyone from the staff can't go to work or will be late...
I have to come up with the best solution.
Anything that will disrupt the smooth flow of the program, it has to be resolve before it even came to reality.

If there are any on-air discrepancy, furnishing a report copy is still part of my responsibility.
Task distribution and even staff attitude solving and counseling is still entrusted on me.

I never worked for the program for days only.
It was EIGHT long months.

There's a part of me that was not ready to go. And I strongly believe that... it was my LOVE for the program.

But since change is inevitable I have to go with the flow.
On my end...I will always look at things as a challenge.

I never wanted to get so emotional.
As much as possible, I never wanted to show it.
But this is what I have to say...I will just think that I will be embarking on a new mission.
I consider this journey as another opportunity to grow more and learn new things as well.

I will surely miss most of the staffs I have worked with.
Goodbye for now...'till our path cross again.




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Pages of Solar Daybreak

October 1, 2012 -Solar Daybreak gave way to it's pilot episode.
November 12, 2012- Program time slot shifted from 6 to 7 in the morning.
January 7, 2013- Amelyn Veloso have joined Jing Magsaysay to co-anchor the morning newscast.
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Jing Magsaysay and Amelyn Veloso

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Ms. Claire Celdran and Ms. Amelyn Veloso

A wild guess to win it

A sample five hundred peso bill

Yesterday, while I was riding on a bus going home,  there was an announcement made by a one woman passenger. She was holding a five hundred peso bill that she accidentally spotted where she was seated.

A woman was in-search of the real owner of the money. But she will only be pleased to return it only if...that person will reveal the exact serial numbers embedded on it.

And that was very absurd.

I mean where in the world you will find a person like that?

If I happen to be a bearer of it and so unfortunate losing my five hundred peso bill...I will definitely lose all the chances of having it back.

Because the only reason I know and is valid is that...normal people don't think that way.

I am but a girl now

In the picture is our daughter Kirsten Althea Garabot

Four years ago, I became a father when my wife gave birth to a beautiful girl we named...Kirsten Althea Garabot. 
Right then and there, my priorities in life changes and the path that I have to take has become clearer.
Everyday Althea, surprises us of things she's capable of doing.
And tonight, both of us were amazed my wife Mary Anne Garabot and I, when she finally showed us that she can change her dress and fix herself.
I just uttered..."WOW, ang galing naman!"
But the way she reacted even get me realized that she's not a baby anymore.
She said..."E siyempre Papa malaki na 'ko."

The RCS reunion

I believe it was a month or two when I asked one of my former student in Roosevelt College for a get-together. At first, it was postponed. It was friday morning when I came to see a pop-up message informing me that we will push thru that day.
I was glad to see some of my students after 4 long years.
We all had little chats, hellos, and most of all a time spent to keep the memory alive by taking our photo souvenirs as a remembrance forever.
We are also calling some of my former students in Roosevelt, Cainta Rizal to join us next time.
And together let us reminisce the past and have a brighter look at our future.

A get together experience with Abhegail, Jeneliza, Myself, Geraldine, and Donna
 at Starbucks, Araneta Center, Cubao, Quezon City. Philippines.
May 17, 2013 Friday Night

The coolest way to spot stuffs you want

At home while doing the blog

It is a common thing for all of us that we consider a price of an item we wanted to purchase.
But I'd like to reiterate that more and more people nowadays are very conscious not only on the talk about affordability but  more importantly in its quality.

Allow me to relate a classic commercial of a certain brand of detergent bar named..."Surf".
This particular brand is strongly giving an emphasis on "Sing linis pero 'di Sing mahal".
The said commercial targeted the very core of many Filipinos in their attitude when it comes to buying
things.

Please see YouTube link for better understanding: http://youtu.be/5xOXAZPuiBU

Recently, I discovered a particular website on the net that specifically caters people whom looking for
an affordable stuffs and it leave a slogan which says...
"Post.Usap.Deal."

I am then referring now to a popular site known by many as The Philippines' #1 Classified Ads Website...Sulit.com.

Please see link: http://www.sulit.com.ph

The reason why I ended up using the popular free Ad website was because I was currently scouting
a kid's bike with a sidecar for my 4-year old daughter Kirsten Althea Garabot.

Want to know more about Kirsten Althea Garabot? Visit her facebook account at: www.facebook.com and key in... altheagarabot@gmail.com

Right then and there, I tried visiting the website and key in the words I am in search for...in a tagalog instruction which says...Ano hanap mo? Which translates...What are you searching for?

Upon typing, several possible stuffs came out. From there, I started looking out for the best item that best suits my taste and interest.

Then you will be directed to fill-out information like your complete name, e-mail address, and your contact number.
A day after, I got a text asking If I am interested.
I simply said yes and we both agreed to meet on a certain location.

What I had may not be a brand new stuff, but just imagine how it made my daughter happy upon seeing her long waited dream...came true.

Althea in her Sulit kid's bike (wearing pink) with her bestfriend Jade
Navotas City, Philippines.

A Naughty Lady

The next thing I heard was she was commanding the driver to stop.
But she was aiming to fall and lean at the direction where I was seated. 

The clock is ticking I have to rush it's already 3 in the morning.
I immediately grab the gate key and walked my way out of the house.
After a few minutes, I have seen a jeepney with a Monumento signage, I took a ride.
Along the way, there were group of ladies came in.
The three ladies seated facing me, and half of it have were beside me.
I started to feel uncomfortable when one of them intentionally lean on me.
Just imagine, the scene was like we were very close and known each other for quiet so long.
I moved an inches away from her.
The next thing I heard was she was commanding the driver to stop.
But she was aiming to fall and lean at the direction where I was seated.
In-short, she wanted to take advantage of the situation.
It was the very first time I have seen myself in an awkward situation like of that.
Meaning, I am completely puzzled on how I will confront the scenario.
I didn't say anything.
After a while, the ladies started to talked about other things.
A few minutes after, they commanded the driver to stop.
I don't know, again the lady beside me acted as if she will fall.
And before she completely leave the jeep, it's like she wanted to pinch me on my chick.
She smiled giggling, and waved goodbye.
And even from a far, she was waving at me.
To lighten up the situation, I just smiled at her.

Our Precious

When I came home today, my daughter Althea, gave me a very warm welcome...my lips was sealed

with her kiss.

I had a dialogue with her..."How did you keep yourself busy today?", I uttered.

I was surprise she replied..."What took you so long Papa? We never had the chance to go out and play today with my bike."

I pause for a while to think for a better answer.

I simply said..."It was traffic".

I believe Althea is not happy with what I said. 

To divert her attention, I presented her a gift. 

And right then and there...her face brightens.

She was very happy to have it.

That made me feel the same thing. 

I think she's hungry for she asked for a sandwich spread with her favorite Nutella.

And also added a stick-o to satisfy her cravings.

After a while, while watching her movie on her DVD player...she asked me to prepare her milk.

I might be tired but never think twice granting her request.

She was so calm and restless.

I start to wonder why I am not hearing anything from her.

I walked on her way and found out that she was at sleep.

Study Time

Althea is now busy on studying at home. This will be her preparation when she finally explore life in school. Watch and learn how she match shapes in other object.

It is a MUST to be FIT

I started trimming and working out at home when I quit for gym two years ago. 

Since, I wanted to prove that even without hitting the gym I can still be 

at my best physical look...I created a routine exercise at home.

With the help of a fitness ball, a flat floor for push-ups, and a jumping rope...

I can be at my best.

I'd like to think that 'Consistency is always the key to result'.

That is why I never stop from believing that one day, I will be at my best form.

Stop making reasons that you lack time on committing into being fit.

Consider this as an inspiration...I usually work weekdays and has a very early call time for work

because of a morning show. 

I need to rise as early as 1 in the morning because I have to meet a 3 am call time.

I may lack sleep sometimes, rather most of the time. But I'll always makes it appoint that I will 

always include exercise in my daily morning ritual.

I was doing this since last year of 2012 and up to present.

After stretching, which we should all do before committing into an intense exercise...

I usually do 3 sets of push-ups, each reps (repitition) has 25 counts and I was doing this before or after I indulge with a sit-ups in my fitness ball.

Normally, I also does 3 reps for this, each set has 60 counts.

And finally, same reps with a jumping rope for my cardio-vascular exercise.

But of course, exercise alone is not enough. One great move to achieve your goal in getting healthy and physically fit is including a diet on your daily meal.

I was able to spoke with a female co-worker and she share her secret on a proper diet.

I was told that I have to try a 'Portion Control' diet.

This is very simple all you have to do is limit the portion of your food intake.

I can't stop eating rice, but I am taking it in a very controlled manner.

Especially during dinner time. You can't have some but don't eat as much as you want.

And scrap the idea of adding pork in your meal. it would be best if you'll be taking more veggies, and sea foods.

Also add fruits in your diet. In the nearby market you can get pineapple and water melon only sold for P10 each.

And settle for water to obey your thirst. 

Just imagine a 12oz content of a soft drink is equivalent to 12 teaspoons of sugar.  

And best of all start your diet and exercise today.

Not tomorrow, the following day, or next year.

Out of the box

I'm a type of a guy who's been fond of wearing common jeans.
I used to worn baggy denims and sometimes those that has many pockets.
In short, in my younger years...I was an old-fashioned guy.
Lately, when I have the chance to do a window shopping from one boutique to another...
my perception about wearing jeans has finally changed.
Though, attach to this BIG change in ME is being so meticulous.
One giant move on this could now be seen on wearing a colored pants.

A Summer Fever At Home

I and my wife Mary Anne Garabot, have always been planning to bring the family out of the house to swim and enjoy the water from the pool or dream big at the beach.  Since, we couldn’t grant this request for now… I thought of the best alternative to make this possible. 

Now, Althea  can enjoy a water dip at home in her improvised pool!